Dear Poppet -- I would have to say that I do accept my depression. And that acceptance doesn't mean that I like it or want it.

After all, Christopher Reeve accepted paralysis -- even though he didn't like and never gave up hope of a medical miracle. And he is not the only person who has had to cope with enormous challenges and loss and found the strength to go on.

I believe that strength to go on requires a foundation of acceptance. I've participated in a 12-step program for many years. It is engrained in my belief system that acceptance of one's illness is the first step toward recovery.

IMHO