I would suggest that you find an Ala-non meeting and go faithfully. You might have to try a few until you find the group you are most comfortable in, but it is important to go. Take her son with you if he is willing. Whether you Lee t to stay or leave the relationship, Alanon is a great resource.
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True happiness comes not when we get rid of all our problems, but when we change our relationship to them, when we see our problems as a potential source of awakening, opportunities to practice patience and learn.~Richard Carlson
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