Hi BorderlineBabe and welcome to PC!

Yeah, I was that way for many years--up to when I was 45 or thereabouts. I finally met a man who was willing to take me on. He has MS and is not the standard good-looking body type. But he has a kind heart and has gone to bat for me many times. We've been married 7 years.

So it's possible...but when we first met I just wanted someone to have fun with. I wish I could I loved myself at that time, but I didn't.

Support groups are actually good places to meet people and talk about things. Two organizations are NAMI and DBSA. You might check with your therapist or look them up online.