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Old Jul 05, 2018, 09:11 PM
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Originally Posted by ruh roh View Post
Right. It just doesn't give an accurate picture of who you are because he was zeroing in on the part that bothered him.

Also, exactly what the truck does it matter if you have a trucking stone from his office and it brings you comfort? You are not getting his name tattooed on your body or asking your husband to dress like him or changing your last name to his (my parent did that, unofficially, when she deluded herself into thinking she'd married her doctor).
Meh, I think it matters to report that LT has boundary and attachment issues. That has everything to do with it - if she didn't, she wouldn't have been interested in the stone in the first place. He really never should have given her the stone at all. I hope they told him that. It just intensified all the feelings that can never be fulfilled in a therapy relationship.