Thanks Peanut but I am not angry at all. IT's hard to hear the tone of my voice huh?
I have questions. I want to know what Ferfa really wants. I have read his posts and they are so full of self hatred and now he is turning it on people here.
I want to know if he really wants help or if he is content to be miserable. His posts are so deeply negative and I think he wants some help.
Sometimes little hugs and wuv ya's work for people and words of encouragement can go a long way but it doesn't seem to be helping him and he doesn't want it. He thinks it's crap and false. So, I will just be straight forward and tell him what I am thinking.
I want to know if he wants to get better and if he thinks we can help somehow.
Not mad. Not at all.
Heidu

Every path to a new understanding begins in confusion- Mason Cooley