https://www.google.com/amp/s/boundar...nsference/amp/

http://psycnet.apa.org/record/2003-05657-005

Remember boundary ninja? She had some pretty good posts about this stuff. I think we might be getting into figuring out exactly when the original (what they call genetic) injury happened, ie at what stage of development - that figures into what it takes to repair / reparent, if you go psychodynamically. The second article abstract above summarizes that.