First off I am wed, have been a long time. I have a bad habit of forming close emotional relationships with men. If this information was divulged it would surely change my whole life.

I can't stop. I have been doing it for years.

The current man has been supporting me emotionally since January. I burn for him. I can think of one way to stop that, but it will inevitably continue and become serious. I have no intention of leaving my husband.

This fella is different than my prior one. The boundaries were very clear cut and we never violated them. This guy though. It is as if we are boon companions.

How do I stop something I do not want to end? What if he is my soulmate and we are in love?