Silver, why not let saving_grace decide whether she gets something out of your reply or not? Personally, I think that what you said is worth considering too. Lots of things weigh into it for me anyway, and doing something that not very many people do (being unique) and getting people to show that they care definitely have been factors for me. Your comments have as much value here as mine or anyone else's.

((((((((hugs))))))))) if you want them
-Rap