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Old Jul 06, 2018, 03:54 PM
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Today seems better. Trying to help my nephew still. He was giving his mom money to pay for his school and insurance. She put a stop payment on his school and took him off the insurance the day she kicked him out. He works during the school year and has the summer off (outside his college stuff). So he paid in advance. So now he can't drive and is on the verge of getting kicked out of school.

His mom has to graduate him still (he was home schooled) for him to get financial aid. If she doesn't do that he can't go to school in the fall and would have to get his GED. He also can't work in the fall at his old job because she works there too and he doesn't want drama. If I can convince her to graduate him he could do work study and be fine. If not he has to find a full time job (3rd shift) and pay out of pocket for school.

We're going to pay his balance on this semester and drive him to class. We don't have that kind of money but if not he gets dropped and all the money he spent this semester and his work he put into classes would be gone. He'd still have a balance. I honestly don't think he'd go back. He's going to look into donating plasma to pay insurance and the one-day temp jobs. However we would have to drive him to those too.

I think I'm to mad to be depressed today. My mind is going a million miles per hour. My parents are telling me to help him get everything situated like I can just snap my fingers and get everything done. My sister I have no nice words to say to her right now. Still she's coming over with her boyfriend so that her ex won't know he's here and that he now lives with him. He has no income or high school diploma and she doesn't work summers. Her ex is living out of his car to support her and the kids. That's with my parents also helping her. This is such a mess.

I'm glad I can help him through this but man this is stressful. Maybe I can have him get his GED before fall semester starts?
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