MsJelloFluff,

You are going through a confusing time. I wanted to say hang in there and forget those classmates. As far as the H thing, that is a tough one. Just like another poster said de-coupling is hard. You are dear and sweet and trying to support him. Probably also remembering why you connected with him in the first place, just remember to take care of you first though. You deserve happiness. And take it easy on yourself. See yourself as all these wonderful friends on PC see you and your great T and then you won't have to pretend or worry about those silly classmates anymore. They can see the real you we know. Hang in there. You are doing fine because you are a fine person.

fragmented (aka rsk)