Thank you Innerzone and Fharraige,

The past 4 months haven't been easy. First he had unrealistic expectations of the job market, what he could make and the type of job he was suitable for. He spent time working on some skills to add to his cv, but still wasn't getting any phone interviews. Then he paid a consultant $200 to help him on his resume. Mostly she was able to extract from him what he actually did during his coop internships and get all that onto one page. It was the best $200 he has ever spent.

Then he started getting phone interviews and converted many to in person interviews and eventually got a low ball job offer that he declined, then another higher offer but in a different city that he accepted, then one in the same city and more money so he 'quit' the offer he had accepted and took this one.

The whole thing has been stressful for both of us and my mental health has taken a step back. I get overwhelmed with negative thinking, like if my cancer will come back or other catastrophic things might happen. Mostly I am very alone most of the time and have few friends and rarely get out except to do errands and eat out with my son. But he is rushing things and spends most of the time on his phone.

I haven't been able to kick the marijuana habit but haven't had psychotic thoughts or trouble sleeping either. Just very tired. I am trying to find positive things to think about.