At least he communicated his lies verbally to you....my H just took the money from the house without ANY communication & I know from 3rd party he is moving things out....what things, where?......that is ALL marriage assets that have to be divided & without communicating to me he is totally in violation of the petition he was served. Difficult from 2100 miles away....letting my lawyer handle it.

When it gets as far as it has in your case.....THERE IS NO TURNING BACK. Sometimes we have to get to that point before we KNOW divorce is the RIGHT thing to do. Lol....they are the ones who push us to that point....maybe intentionally who may ever know then just say they don't want the divorve to TRY & make us feel guilty (I think NOT at that point)