I love reading your posts. I actually think it's a good thing to talk a lot about your relationship with your T -- I make a point of doing so myself, because I'm scared of missing "red flags" -- and also because others can sometimes offer helpful alternative points of view.

If I felt I couldn't talk about my relationship with C or the things going on in that office because of what someone else might think, that would be a big red flag to me that something was wrong.