Hey NP: replying from this post on the other couch:
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I didn't take offense. I just wanted to explain why it's on my mind. I already have a restraining order that I have to renew once a year, plus he's court ordered not to contact me while he's in the criminal justice system (prison + parole) as part of his sentencing. But it's just a piece of paper.
It's just tough. I don't want contact, but no contact means I have no idea how he's feeling about me and/or his current situation. He's disappeared into a black box from my perspective. Unless I ask our mutual friend who is still in contact with him.
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Do you think it would be better for you if you were in contact with him? I can only think about how dangerous that would be.