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He knows about my drinking, simply b/c it did come in all of us (my friends included) talking one afternoon.

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Gracey, I saw this interesting word slip I think? "come in" instead of "come out"?

Can you talk to another member of the house, another friend who can help you be vigilant and help keep the dynamic from being so personal and dyadic?