Hmm, I didn't actually notice any questions in the post, just dire pronouncements. I agree that questions are often very helpful, if that's what you're getting at. As for feelings, I was thinking of someone's feelings getting hurt - LT's. As for hurting sorrynormas feelings, I did not attack her. I refuted certain points of what she said, and even said one point made some sense. I did not tell her to go away, stop posting, or anything of the sort. Why can she have an opinion on the nature of this thread and the people in it, but I can't? That is what I mean by dishing and taking it.