I wish I could compile detailed profiles of therapists and clients who successfully do attachment-based therapy (or whatever your want to call it) to find the common links. Is that approach what LT needs? Or does she need the exact opposite? It's so odd how the solution is sometimes to explore the therapeutic relationship and sometimes to not explore the therapeutic relationship. That's why I can never totally decide how I feel about LT's therapist's approach. I think it's also part of why her therapy has incited so much discussion.