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Originally Posted by Rose76
Ruby, stop saying you were "traumatized." The threat of the restraining order was an extreme measure that you pushed that person toward. It seemed you were going to defy the instruction that you leave that person alone. I guess you only stopped because of the threat of bringing the law down on you. That seemed to "shock" you into having more respect for this person's right to be left alone.
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Good posting. I would add that Ruby has not yet recognized the supervisor’s right to be left alone. From her posts, I don’t believe Ruby understands empathy. She still thinks she is the victim, even after everyone has pointed out that she is the one victimizing others. She can say that she will follow the “no stalking” rule, but she either doesn’t understand or doesn’t care that she abused and traumatized the supervisor. She is not sorry. She just doesn’t want to pay the consequences of getting caught. Until she is able to understand that, I’m afraid we are all wasting our time. Wash, rinse, repeat.