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Jul 09, 2018, 09:12 PM
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Member Since: Apr 2014
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Posts: 8,406
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Originally Posted by ruby2011
Sorry, I only meant I felt deeply hurt bc I didn’t understand at that time. Traumatized might not be an appropriate word for it. I understand that I was in the wrong, not her.
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Yeah, look, can we stop telling Ruby she's not entitled to her feelings or that her feelings are wrong? Feelings just are. They aren't right or wrong. Now, her behavior might be causing her to have hurt feelings, and so she needs to take responsibility for her own feelings, but let's at least give her some compassion that these are her feelings and she is allowed to have them.
Geez.
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Primary Dx: C-PTSD and Severe Chronic Treatment Resistant Major Depressive Disorder
Secondary Dx: Generalized Anxiety Disorder with mild Agoraphobia.
Meds I've tried: Prozac, Zoloft, Celexa, Effexor, Remeron, Elavil, Wellbutrin, Risperidone, Abilify, Prazosin, Paxil, Trazadone, Tramadol, Topomax, Xanax, Propranolol, Valium, Visteril, Vraylar, Selinor, Clonopin, Ambien
Treatments I've done: CBT, DBT, Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation (TMS), Talk therapy, psychotherapy, exercise, diet, sleeping more, sleeping less...
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