Healingme4me,

He has actually been down all week, which explains the delayed response. We he 2 hours from eachother now. It has been a pretty good week. He is doing really well. Tired a lot but that's normal due to medication. Your right, time together helps to foresee the future. I think taking things slow and see where it goes is a good starting point.

I don't really think I chose an ex over a new. We fell in love and never felt that love for anyone else since. I'm really picky when it comes to letting new men wanting relationships into my life. Lately, I have opened up and dated but has ended with them wanting and getting one thing. Tired of that process at the moment. I have never been one that has needed to be in a relationship. I have never been married and was never that little girl dreaming up my wedding at an early age. Sure, it would be nice at some point but not necessary.