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Old Jul 10, 2018, 12:53 PM
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Originally Posted by seesaw View Post
Yeah, look, can we stop telling Ruby she's not entitled to her feelings or that her feelings are wrong? Feelings just are. They aren't right or wrong. Now, her behavior might be causing her to have hurt feelings, and so she needs to take responsibility for her own feelings, but let's at least give her some compassion that these are her feelings and she is allowed to have them.

Geez.
No one told Ruby that "she's not entitled to her feelings." No one told Ruby "that her feelings are wrong."

Ruby has been shown a ton of compassion on this and other thread. Responders realize that Ruby has a condition that makes some things very difficult for her.