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Originally Posted by seesaw
Yeah, look, can we stop telling Ruby she's not entitled to her feelings or that her feelings are wrong? Feelings just are. They aren't right or wrong. Now, her behavior might be causing her to have hurt feelings, and so she needs to take responsibility for her own feelings, but let's at least give her some compassion that these are her feelings and she is allowed to have them.
Geez.
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Thank you. I agree completely, seesaw.
If ruby says she feels traumatized, that means she feels traumatized and I don't think her feelings should be denied.
I cannot understand why this thread is continuing with page after page of posters bashing ruby.