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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight
He also seems to be more understanding of some of my needs. Like, "In order to do the deeper work, about childhood and stuff, she needs to feel safe and secure with me. And maybe she needs a little reassurance at times to feel that. So giving her some reassurance and showing I care might not be such a terrible thing after all."
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I've refrained on commenting on this thread because I think you know where I stand on Dr. T. I ultimately trust your judgement, though he's certainly not prefect. But DUH. People with insecure and disorganized attachment styles need a safe place to attach to have meaningful connections. If you can't connect to the therapist, then how the heck can you feel safe talking about the real meat?