I wouldn't even keep a list of things more detailed than a list of dates.. When I took such and such a drug, maybe side effects and when I changed. Doctors' names and dates I saw them and then maybe diagnoses. How would anything else be useful for files?


Most couples have fights now and then and there is personal psychological information I wouldn't want even my husband to have. It would be easy for something detailed and private to be used as a weapon in a fight. It can be something you've changed or disagree with, but still it's there in black and white and decreed by a "professional".. No matter how regretful he might be later. It's out there and can't be taken back.

It's not at all the same thing as his keeping files of when he had his broken leg set at Mercy Hospital.