I have been with my twin babies father for going on 5 years next month, and my kids will be two. I do not know how to make the steps to leave the mostly mental and emotion abuse. It has been since the beginning. I am a stay at home mom but I do have a degree that I have yet to use. I just feel like if we split I need him gone out of the house, and i dont know how to do that. I have become codependent since he has cut any good people from my life...