It is 100 percent all and ONLY T's responsibility to contain and process info, keeping it separate. If she can't handle that in a professional way, then she can't see people who are friends. That's my opinion- in NO way your fault, not even a little bit.
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Originally Posted by QuietMind
Some really bad stuff happened involving the friend / acquaintance who also sees T.
Long complicated story which I can PM if you want but TLDR T said I shouldn't have told her a sensitive thing about that friend. It meant me and T lied for a year. I told T out of concern, not because I wanted to gossip. And that friend is mad with me, rightfully so.
T said yesterday via phone not to self blame but T agreed I should never have told T XYZ. I shall not talk or write about my friends to T anymore.
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