Also if my abusive sibling seeks help at the same hospital, T is the only therapist working with trauma and personality issues. So good, soft hearted T would probably see my sibling lol.

Another friend G once was almost going to be assigned to T. Ex T and T both agreed T would be a good match. T said she would see him. G saw another therapist (T's colleague) and eventually chose another hospital. But now G is reconsidering returning and T is the only one with training to help him. And T will see him if so.

Anyway this is all wrapped up in my jealousy issues.