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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight
Your need for a T isn't just about SUI. You very much deserve care. You're dealing with a lot from the past and present.
It's not fair for your T to blame you for sharing the secret. She should be able to handle hearing things about others and keeping those things confidential. If she can't, then she shouldn't see friends of clients.
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I don't remember details of the phone call so I'm not sure if I heard everything T said through a distorted lens. But I know she definitely agreed I shouldn't have told her the secret.
Of course I take that as blaming me. Though T would probably say she's not blaming me. I don't recall her explicitly saying something "I am not blaming you / You are not to blame" so I just feel she's blaming me.
And I can't call anymore. I limit myself to 1 call per gap. I feel I should just walk away from T. Stupid attachment anyway, you know? She's so loving and kind to ALL her patients and I take up a valuable time slot.
And it's selfish of me that I see her so much more often than people needing REAL help.