Yes, that is something you could definitely work on with your T. Transference happens a lot more than most people recognize. It's transference any time we react to someone based on how someone else in our history made us feel. If you do some pondering and exploring your feelings, you might be able to remember when you felt some of those same feelings before, who it was related to then, and why you felt that way. It can help you to recognize that your reactions are left over from that previous situation, and aren't this guy's fault, at least not entirely. And process what you learn with your T, who can help you do be able to manage those feelings more effectively than most of us could without the benefit of the kind of feedback T can give you.