The first fallacy is the concept that romantic love is unconditional love, IMHO. “Things just got too hard” is an honest reason for a partner to leave someone with or without MI. I look at relationships as to be cherished while they are active, and if they become toxic, too hard, etc, they do end. Then we find new partner and start over, hoping this time we don’t make mistakes and they don’t end. At least you got the partner in the first place. Some folks don’t even connect with anyone at all.

IDK what I hope to get out of posting this to you. I think my intentions are to share with you my outlook in hopes it will make you feel better. I’m a little gun shy now that I got in trouble for posting on another thread. Please disregard if this upsets you.