All of this would be okay if I felt like we were, after everything, "the one" for each other.. But our love I feel has jolted. Its going backwards.. it isn't growing stronger like it should. Sexual intimacy is lessening and feeling more awkward. He joked to his friend the other day that we were passed the dating phase and were now in the 'just tolerating each other' phase. I know I'm part of this relationship as well so it's my fault as well.