So much for being willing to keep it to birthdays and Christmas. *sigh*
Stating that you are in very different places is not abusive.
I feel for you, had an old friend from the past attempt to reconnect after 15 years. I was polite, but refused to add her to my fb list. She considered that bullying. She's not in a good place and may never be. I ceased communication because I found her overbearing to begin with.
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Originally Posted by *Laurie*
Thanks for your reply, Bill. In essence, I've explained to "Jenny" that I feel our lives are in very different places and that to continue our friendship feels is toxic to me. Based upon that, I need to stop communication for a while. Her response has been to PM me and call me, accusing me of "abusing" her and demanding to know why I'm "mad at her."
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