((((((((((( BrnEyedGrl ))))))))))))

It can be a bit overwhelming here as there is so much to see and do. Sorry if you are having some difficulties.

Many folks here log on and read forums that they are interested in. They post supportively to people, or make a thread about something that is either bothering them, or something they want to share with others.

Some folks only visit certain forums while others look at all of them. After newbies have posted for awhile, either asking for support or giving it or both, people see your name and may find they have a connection with you on some level. That's pretty much how relationships start around here. The more visible you are, the more connections you can make.

Many folks here also speak in pm's to each other...off the boards and privately. After being her for awhile you may want to reach out to someone privately or someone may want to reach out to you privately and relationships can form from that too.

Then there are the folks who are researching and reading the other parts of PC....the informative articles have helped many folks in finding answers to their questions.

Unfortunately, I'm not into putting pictures in my signatures so I can't help you with that....sorry!

As far as the chatroom is concerned.....it can be a godsend to some or it can be extremely uncomfortable for others. Since this is a mental health site, at any given time, there are folks in chat who have some real difficult stuff they are going through. Some may lash out because of the space they are in, some may be withdrawn and not talk much but feel the need for company, some may be there in very supportive roles. Since you understand chat pretty well, you probably know that the written word can be difficult for some to understand how some things are said....and feelings get hurt at times. (unintentionally) And then there are times when chatters are in goofy moods and having a blast.

One thing you will find here is that there is an abundance of patience and support. It's a great community and we strive to keep it uplifting.

My advice is to take your time, sit back, read, post, support, ask for help if you need it (like you did here!) and enjoy our community. We are glad you are here and I look forward to seeing you on the forums or in chat! I hope I've helped a bit


sabby