Hey Twinmama831,

You should contact domestic abuse centre, as PumpkinPieHead shared. If not that, atleast consider marriage counselor.

People are abusive for different reason - either they are struggling with some mental health issue or that's what they learned from their parents. Being in an abusive house is very detrimental and will send a wrong message to your kids about marriage, love, relationships, self-esteem.

But before you take a decision for divorce, first see if you can work on your marriage.

Please talk to a therapist and take an informed decision - 'staying and fixing' or 'quitting and moving on'. Current situation is not helping anyone - not you, or your children or your husband.