In reading through, two things made me think "ouch and wow". The comment about not fighting for you, then the comment about just tolerating each other.

This is not going in a healthy/good/promising direction. I cannot say that there is hope for this relationship. To hold on hoping it will improve is a big mistake.

Honestly? If a man said those two things either to my face or about me to someone else, I would be out the door, no looking back and no questioning.