I feel so used. So my H and I have been helping my sister out a ton: place to stay, food and drinks, free babysitting, a new laptop, tons of office supplies, emotional support, cash, etc. We've been taking care of her dog for awhile, but she's supposed to look into putting him in a shelter that helps animals of families who have domestic violence. So my H asked her about that today. She exploded on us saying she'll never ask for anything from us, she doesn't ever want to see us, etc. She throws a tantrum every time something doesn't go her way. I'm sick and tired of my family. And I'm so tired of helping people out and then they stab us in the back.