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I feel he lies to me, withholds critical information from me, favors my husband over me (he is supposed to be neutral), enjoys putting me in uncomfortable positions and watching me suffer, etc. I attribute all sorts of irrational and evil motives to him. In actuality, when I am with him, I think of him, objectively, as a nice guy.

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Can you identify when those feelings toward him begin? Maybe he said or did something right off that set this tone for you.

Have you considered telling him in a professional courteous way that sometimes you don't feel he's being neutral? I think a meeting with your T with him is an interesting idea! A safe place to let him know you have issues with him. Why not?!