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Old Jul 12, 2018, 03:44 PM
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Originally Posted by Michael2Wolves View Post
It's being done for shock factor, and to get a reaction, period. I know who is doing it, and I can imagine why. I couldn't care less, myself, because unless the chat is about something I find worthy of comment, I just ignore it.

That being said, people should move to the adult room if they want to regale each other with tales of "smoking fatties" and whatnot. I'm not impressed by it. I smoke, yes, and it's not legal where I am, but it's the only thing that will relax me physically; I just have to deal with the side effects, that, while pleasant, don't necessarily belong in chat.

The chat is there to foster healthy communication. If you don't like the topic, change it and ignore the offending person.

Honestly, I could care less. It's like any other online chat--there's always going to be a few who want to act out, but whatever. You don't have to respond. By choosing to respond, you're continuing the controversy. That this thread even exists only adds to the controversy.

The Simpsons had the right idea, and even got Paul Anka to write a little ditty for it.



EDIT: And to be fair (mostly because I have detractors out there who will jump all over this if I don't put this disclaimer in), I have on occasion made a joke about it, but usually in the form of *Bob Marley's Jamming playing in the background* but yeah, I get it, and will refrain myself.
It is not even appropriate in the Adult Chat room. Adult Chat is not for controversial topics. It is for topics that are not light-hearted but the guidelines still persist. DocJohn has clearly weighed in here and said in no way is drug use an appropriate subject matter, and medicinal marijuana is only so in discussing side effects, but he has even clarified he does not see when that would even be appropriate.

I'm glad that you don't care, but I do. Chat is supposed to be a safe place. It triggers more than just myself to hear these continued discussions of drug use that have been going on for awhile now. Continued discussions of drug use are not conducive to creating a safe place for people to get support.

And if this post bothers you so much, then maybe YOU should ignore it.

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