Do you find that working through emotional issues has made you less tolerant of others? I’m interested in what others have experienced or concluded.

Cognitively I am really seeing things differently. This has been very recent. I am seeing the mental traps I set for myself and the crap other people do that I get entangled in. It’s like seeing the land mines when I used to blindly walk all over them.

Lately I have been cynical and irritable with people quite a bit. I am sure it’s just a matter of working through old feelings and balancing old behaviors with new ones. I don’t want to carry all this negativity. Seeing things for what they are and being logical about it all is one thing... being angry about it all is not personal growth.