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Originally Posted by Turtle_Rider
I once had this type of friend. I cut my realtionship with her and yes, it was one of the best decision I've ever made. She became a criminal and she would drag me (and other friends) if we didn't ditch her.
I suggest you to do the same. Don't be afraid of confrontation because you can't leave her if you don't confront her. Show her that you can't be manipulated. You can just block her contacts or avoid her. If she send you hurtful messages, counter back with proofs and criticizes. Narcissist can't handle them. Eventually, she will leave you after realizing that she can't use you anymore.
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Thank you. It looks like this is the right decision to leave her to her own devices. I'm glad you got out of that toxic friendship.
She will only be able to contact me by email or home phone and if she does it'll be a simple message for her to not contact me anymore but she'll keep at it, she does with everyone who leaves her because she LOVES confrontation. It's more drama in her life to complain to others about. She has blocked my confidence to grow in work and be more social, so I think it's only fair to block her back
