The funny thing is that he has never shamed me for being needy. We've talked about it a lot over the last few months and he's always said my needs are normal and fine. He's always told me that it's okay that he's my only support right now, told me it's not my fault that's the case, and told me he was happy to be that for me right now. I don't know what went wrong. This all started after I shared the letter. I'm not sure what thing I did that pushed him over to feeling resentful.