I do plan on talking with him about it, but I feel like this is the issue. It seems to explain the mixed messages, like about him caring about me and telling me it's okay to ask for what I need while at the same time feeling like he's pulling back a little bit and saying he can't meet all my needs. Once I saw it, it felt like all the pieces fell into place. I've been thinking quitting therapy might be the fix. I don't want to be the person making him anxious and doubting our therapy together. I plan on going Monday so I have a few days to think about it.
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