Are you reacting to a rule that was enforced you didn't agree with the enforcement of or to your perception that the existence of a rule means it is always enforced, for all people, at all times, and someone is just sitting there watching that particular rule and your behavior, salivating, waiting to enforce it?

There are zillions of rules floating around in society but not all apply equally? Sometimes rules are there just "in case" but never really get enforced. I don't read rules; I just behave normally

Some rules I think we're individually more triggered by? It's harder with such a large group of members too I think; people have different backgrounds, come from different countries and cultures. What might be acceptable somewhere else might not fit here with this setup and these members?