Went to the lake today (along with what appeared to be the entire population of a small country) and taking everyone to dinner for D's birthday. She's going to order a drink and I'm not going to freak out. It feels very odd, though. I hid drinking and smoking from my parents even after I was of age. I keep telling myself we have an entirely different relationship and I don't want her to hide. Ah, get over it, self!

NP, I'm sorry about your father.

(((Whisper and Fuzzy)))