SM...when I became of age, I tried to give my parents a heart attack. When I was 18.. I went outside and lit up a cigarette right in front of my mother. She said when did you start smoking I said NOW, though I didn’t actually smoke. Then when I was 21, I went out and bought a bottle of vodka, brought it home, opened it and poured a shot. My father just looked at me and said sarcastically “yeah, real cute. You smart ass” So, yeah I was unsuccessful. Good on you to make a choice not to freak. At least you know ahead of time she is going to order a drink.