Whoa Art, I am sorry your brain is spinning out of control.

I literally would have NEVEr thought to callt he rental place to see if they got the car back. I would just have assumed it had happened. And they most definitely would have called you by now if they didn't get it. You did what the cops said to. I would have too.

And your H is being a d!ck about it. Seriously. Don't let this ruin the rest of your life if you need a rental car. I get it that accidents are traumatic, mine was too.