Hi there, what happened wasn't fair at all and sounds abusive to me. I know he is your parent, your father and your mother can be as silly and oblivious as she'd like but you need to report that behaviour to the police. You are sixteen you can and need to get a job because your own place is now very necessary, you need your space to be your own person. In your own space you have power and you control the environment, you are respected in your own home and you call the shots which puts and end full stop to your parents unfair behaviour. What this tells me is that you are different from your parents and shouldn't be around them. You are only family if it feels like it to you, not just because you originated from them. Report them and move out!