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Old Jul 15, 2018, 02:21 PM
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Originally Posted by Sassandclass View Post
[emoji29] I’m sorry you’re having a hard day . Maybe the person who didn’t text back is just busy?

I find it helps me to remember this quote “Don’t worry about what other people think of you. Chances are, they’re not thinking of you at all!”

It helps to remind me that people usually don’t mean anything personal by their actions. They’re just wrapped up in their own lives. 🤷🏻*♀️

Hope this helps [emoji176]
I agree that this is the most likely explanation. It’s true, most people aren’t meaning anything personal and many people don’t text back straight away

I wish there was a “professional” who could genuinely help you, but as in the UK this isn’t likely. I don’t enjoy being invalidated by “professionals” (irl) who, frankly, should know better.

And as well as invalidation being a butcher style of therapy and useless, it can be dangerous

Apologies for the off topic rant. I know there are some good ones even in the UK. But there are few, imho
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