Hello dhicks: I'm not really the member, here on PC, you want to hear from. However I noticed this is your first post here on PC. So... welcome to PsychCentral! I hope you find PC to be of interest.

Another forum, here on PC, that may be of interest would be the anxiety forum. Here's a link:

https://forums.psychcentral.com/anxiety-panic-phobias/

And then here are links to a selection of articles, from PsychCentral's archives, that may be of interest:

https://psychcentral.com/blog/how-to...dium=popular17

https://psychcentral.com/blog/4-ways...dium=popular17

https://psychcentral.com/lib/dont-as...rase-the-past/

https://psychcentral.com/blog/when-y...-relationship/

https://psychcentral.com/blog/11-tip...anage-anxiety/

https://psychcentral.com/lib/9-ways-...ere-right-now/

https://psychcentral.com/lib/15-smal...iety-symptoms/

https://psychcentral.com/lib/top-10-...s-for-anxiety/

https://psychcentral.com/blog/how-to...ess-fails-you/

https://psychcentral.com/lib/how-cou...-relationship/

My best wishes to you & your new love...