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Old Jul 16, 2018, 01:46 PM
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Originally Posted by Miguel'smom View Post
I'm starting to think maybe it's not what you did this time to their father but what you put your family through all the years undiognosed. I know you can't do anything about it but keep forcing instead of waiting may be making things worse. My sisters had a falling out. It took maybe 2.5 years for them to stand in the same room together. Even now they don't really talk and hang out. Some things just take time.
I agree that I think it is now more about the ramifications over the years. The letter my counselor suggested (and helped edit) was about: acknowledging the pain, apologizing, and asking for forgiveness.